Kevin Kline And Phoebe Cates: Inside The 35-Year 'Non-Hollywood' Marriage And Their Children's New Projects In 2025
One of Hollywood’s most enduring and private power couples, Kevin Kline and Phoebe Cates, continue to defy industry expectations, with their 35-year marriage standing as a testament to their commitment to family and life outside the spotlight. As of late 2024 and heading into 2025, the couple remains a fascinating study in balancing iconic careers with a fiercely protected private life, raising a family of their own creative talents in New York City rather than Los Angeles. The latest updates reveal a busy schedule for the Oscar-winning patriarch, new career milestones for their children, and the continued success of Cates’ post-acting career as a successful entrepreneur.
The couple, who first met in 1982 and married seven years later, have managed to keep their relationship out of the tabloid cycle, a feat Kevin Kline recently attributed to a deliberate choice to live away from the epicenter of celebrity culture. While Kline gears up for new acting roles, Cates remains focused on her successful Upper East Side boutique, proving that a Hollywood legacy can be gracefully traded for a life of purpose and privacy.
Complete Biography Profile: Kevin Kline and Phoebe Cates
The foundation of this long-lasting union is built on two highly successful, yet vastly different, careers in the entertainment world. Their decision to prioritize their family life in New York City over the demands of Hollywood is a recurring theme in their history.
Kevin Delaney Kline
- Born: October 24, 1947 (Age 78 in 2025) in St. Louis, Missouri.
- Spouse: Phoebe Cates (m. 1989).
- Notable Filmography: Sophie's Choice (1982), The Big Chill (1983), A Fish Called Wanda (1988), Dave (1993), In & Out (1997), The Ice Storm (1997), Life as a House (2001).
- Key Awards: Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor (A Fish Called Wanda), Three-time Tony Award winner (for his work in the New York theatre scene).
- Recent Projects (2025): Set to star in the MGM+ series American Classic and the film A Big Bold Beautiful Journey.
Phoebe Belle Cates Kline
- Born: July 16, 1963 (Age 61 in 2025) in New York City, New York.
- Spouse: Kevin Kline (m. 1989).
- Notable Filmography: Fast Times at Ridgemont High (1982), Paradise (1982), Gremlins (1984), Gremlins 2: The New Batch (1990), Drop Dead Fred (1991), Princess Caraboo (1994).
- Post-Acting Career: Businesswoman and entrepreneur.
- Career Highlight: Her iconic poolside scene as Linda Barrett in Fast Times at Ridgemont High remains one of the most memorable moments in 1980s teen cinema.
The Secret to a 35-Year 'Non-Hollywood' Marriage
In a world where celebrity marriages often end quickly, Kevin Kline and Phoebe Cates’ decades-long relationship is often cited as a model of stability. They celebrated their 35th wedding anniversary in 2024, a milestone that prompted Kline to recently share his philosophy on their enduring bond.
Kline has often stated that the key to their success was their mutual decision to raise their children, Owen and Greta, in New York City, far removed from the constant scrutiny of Los Angeles.
“It’s not a Hollywood marriage,” Kline has remarked, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a healthy distance from the industry’s pressures. This geographical and philosophical separation allowed Cates, in particular, to transition away from acting in the mid-1990s to prioritize motherhood and pursue other interests, a choice that Kline fully supported.
Their first meeting was at an audition in 1982 for the film The Big Chill, a project that Kline would star in. Cates was only 19, while Kline was 35, a significant age gap that proved irrelevant to their connection. They married in 1989 in a private ceremony, establishing a strong, bi-coastal working relationship where Kline could pursue his passion for theatre in New York while still taking on major film roles.
From '80s Icon to Upper East Side Businesswoman
Phoebe Cates’ career trajectory is one of the most unique in Hollywood history. After achieving massive fame in the 1980s with roles in cult classics like Gremlins and the highly-publicized Fast Times at Ridgemont High, she chose to step back from the camera to focus on her family.
Her retirement from full-time acting was a conscious decision to be present for her children. She famously said she wanted to “cook dinner every night” rather than chase movie roles.
However, Cates did not completely abandon her creative spirit. In the fall of 2005, she channeled her eclectic taste into a new venture: a highly successful boutique called Blue Tree on New York’s Upper East Side.
The store is described as a “general store but according to me,” offering a carefully curated mix of high-end women’s clothing, jewelry, home goods, and unique gifts. This shift from film star to entrepreneur highlights her independence and commitment to a life of normalcy and creativity outside of the Hollywood machine.
The Next Generation: Owen and Greta Kline's Creative Careers
The creative legacy of Kevin Kline and Phoebe Cates is now being carried forward by their two children, both of whom have carved out distinct careers in the arts, echoing their parents’ independent spirit.
Owen Joseph Kline: Filmmaker and Actor
Owen Kline (born 1991) has built a reputation as a multi-hyphenate talent, working as an actor, filmmaker, and cartoonist. He first gained recognition as a child actor, notably for his role as Frank Berkman in the critically acclaimed 2005 film The Squid and the Whale.
In recent years, Owen has moved behind the camera, making his directorial debut with the 2022 dark comedy Funny Pages, which was widely praised by critics. His acting career is also seeing a resurgence, with a recent appearance in A24’s dark comedy A Different Man in 2024 and a role in the upcoming Apple TV+ series The Studio, scheduled for 2025.
Greta Simone Kline: Indie Music Star (Frankie Cosmos)
Greta Kline (born 1994) has found significant success in the independent music scene under the stage name Frankie Cosmos. Steering clear of her parents’ cinematic path, Greta is known for her delicate, lo-fi sound and prolific songwriting.
As the primary force behind the band Frankie Cosmos, Greta is considered a frontrunner in the wave of female indie musicians who have emerged over the last decade. Her work, including the 2014 studio album Zentropy, showcases a raw, personal style that resonates deeply with her dedicated fanbase. She remains active in the New York music scene, further cementing the family’s deep connection to the city’s artistic culture.
The story of Kevin Kline and Phoebe Cates is a rare Hollywood anomaly—a decades-long marriage built on mutual respect, a shared passion for the arts, and the wisdom to prioritize a grounded life in New York City. As Kevin Kline continues his acting career into 2025 and their children flourish in their own creative fields, the couple’s legacy of talent and privacy remains a compelling chapter in celebrity history.
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