5 Shocking Revelations About The Weeknd And Selena Gomez: Where Are They Now In 2025?
The whirlwind romance between pop titans Selena Gomez and The Weeknd, whose real name is Abel Tesfaye, captivated the world in 2017, dominating headlines and red carpets. Their 10-month relationship, though brief in Hollywood terms, left an indelible mark on pop culture, inspiring chart-topping music and sparking endless speculation about the true reasons for their split. As of this current date, December 23, 2025, both stars have moved on to new, highly public, and successful phases of their lives, making their past connection a fascinating case study in celebrity evolution.
This article dives deep into the timeline, the musical fallout—including the infamous breakup anthems—and provides a fresh, up-to-the-minute look at where Selena Gomez and Abel Tesfaye stand today, contrasting their intertwined past with their massively successful, yet separate, present.
The Weeknd (Abel Tesfaye) and Selena Gomez: A Brief Biography
The relationship between the two artists was a major story in 2017, uniting two of the biggest names in music and entertainment. To fully grasp the context, a look at their individual profiles is essential.
Selena Gomez (Born July 22, 1992)
- Full Name: Selena Marie Gomez
- Occupation: Singer, Actress, Producer, Businesswoman (Rare Beauty)
- Known For: Disney’s *Wizards of Waverly Place*, hit songs like "Hands to Myself," "Lose You to Love Me," and her critically acclaimed role as Mabel Mora in the Hulu series *Only Murders in the Building*.
- Major Relationships: Justin Bieber (on-again, off-again), The Weeknd (Abel Tesfaye), and currently married to Benny Blanco.
- Current Status (Late 2025): Married to Benny Blanco, starring in *Only Murders in the Building* Season 5.
The Weeknd (Abel Tesfaye) (Born February 16, 1990)
- Full Name: Abel Makkonen Tesfaye
- Occupation: Singer, Songwriter, Record Producer, Actor
- Known For: Albums *Starboy*, *After Hours*, and *Dawn FM*, with global hits like "Blinding Lights," "Save Your Tears," and "The Hills." Co-creator and star of the HBO series *The Idol*.
- Major Relationships: Bella Hadid (on-again, off-again), Selena Gomez, and current partner Simi Khadra.
- Current Status (Late 2025): Preparing for the release of his new album and psychological thriller film, both titled *Hurry Up Tomorrow*, in early 2025, and dating Simi Khadra.
1. The Whirlwind Romance and Abrupt End: January to October 2017
The relationship between Selena Gomez and Abel Tesfaye began in January 2017, just two months after The Weeknd’s split from model Bella Hadid. They were first spotted kissing outside a restaurant in Santa Monica, immediately launching them into the media spotlight. Their romance was characterized by high-profile public appearances, contrasting sharply with The Weeknd’s typically private nature.
The couple quickly became a fixture at major events, making their red-carpet debut at the Met Gala in May 2017. They traveled the world together, with Gomez accompanying Tesfaye on his *Starboy: Legend of the Fall* tour, sharing glimpses of their relationship on social media, including an Instagram-official post that garnered millions of likes.
Despite the glamorous facade, the relationship hit a snag. In October 2017, after approximately 10 months of dating, news broke that Selena Gomez and The Weeknd had parted ways. Sources at the time cited the difficulty of maintaining a long-distance relationship due to their conflicting work schedules as the primary reason for the split.
The timing was particularly noteworthy, as Gomez was spotted spending time with her ex-boyfriend, Justin Bieber, shortly before the breakup was officially confirmed, fueling intense media speculation about a quick rebound.
2. The Musical Aftermath: Heartbreak and Catharsis on *My Dear Melancholy,*
The true depth of The Weeknd’s feelings about the breakup was laid bare in his 2018 EP, *My Dear Melancholy,*. The entire project is widely regarded by fans and critics as a raw, emotional response to his split from Selena Gomez and his subsequent return to Bella Hadid.
The song "Call Out My Name" became the immediate, undeniable anthem of the breakup. The lyrics are incredibly specific, suggesting a deep sacrifice and emotional turmoil. Lines like, "I helped you out of a broken place / You gave me comfort / But falling for you was my mistake" and the famous, "I almost cut a piece of myself for your life" (a possible reference to Gomez’s kidney transplant) solidified the connection to Selena.
Other tracks, like "Wasted Times," are believed to reflect on his past with Bella Hadid, but the overall tone of the EP is one of profound heartbreak and regret over the Gomez relationship.
Tesfaye later confirmed the EP's intensely personal nature, stating that the songs were "cathartic" and represented "all I had to say on this situation." This musical documentation provided the public with a rare, intimate look into the emotional toll of their high-profile split, giving the brief relationship a lasting legacy in pop music history.
3. The Current Chapter: Separate Lives, Marriage, and Hollywood Thrillers (2025)
Five years after their 2017 split, both Selena Gomez and Abel Tesfaye have achieved incredible personal and professional milestones, moving far beyond the drama of their past romance.
Selena Gomez: The Newlywed and Producer
Selena Gomez is currently experiencing a period of immense personal joy and professional success. In a major headline-making event, Gomez married music producer Benny Blanco in September 2025. The couple, who confirmed their relationship in late 2023, celebrated their wedding after an engagement announcement in December 2024.
Professionally, Gomez continues to shine as an actress and producer. She remains a central figure in the acclaimed series *Only Murders in the Building*, with Season 5 airing in late 2025, where she stars alongside legends Steve Martin and Martin Short.
Regarding her ex, Gomez has maintained a mature and positive stance. She famously told *Billboard* that they ended their relationship "as best friends" and that the split was "genuinely about encouraging and caring for each other." She also publicly dismissed rumors that her 2023 hit "Single Soon" was a subtle jab at The Weeknd, clarifying that the song was about self-love and independence.
The Weeknd: Film Star and Final Album Era
Abel Tesfaye has also solidified his status as a multi-hyphenate artist. He has been in a long-term relationship with DJ and model Simi Khadra, with whom he has been publicly linked since 2022.
On the career front, Tesfaye is preparing for his next massive era, which he has hinted may be the final chapter under "The Weeknd" persona.
His major 2025 project is the release of a new album and an accompanying psychological thriller film, both titled *Hurry Up Tomorrow*. The film, which stars Tesfaye as a fictionalized version of himself, is slated for a May 16, 2025 release and features a high-profile cast including Jenna Ortega and Barry Keoghan. This move into major film production marks a significant evolution for the artist, showing a clear pivot from the romantic drama that once defined his music.
4. The Lingering Question: Did They Ever Look Back?
Despite the amicable public statements, the music suggests a deeper emotional impact. The lyrics from *My Dear Melancholy,* are so raw that they indicate a period of intense reflection and pain for Abel Tesfaye. The line "I almost cut a piece of myself for your life" in "Call Out My Name" is arguably one of the most vulnerable and revealing lyrics he has ever released, suggesting the relationship was far more serious than a simple scheduling conflict.
Conversely, Selena Gomez’s rapid return to Justin Bieber shortly after the split, coupled with her public statements about remaining "best friends" with Abel, paints a picture of a woman who was focused on her health and moving forward. The narrative suggests that while The Weeknd was left to process the breakup through his art, Gomez was already prioritizing her personal well-being and her long-term relationship with Bieber, which briefly reignited before its final end.
5. The Final Verdict on a Pop Culture Phenomenon
The relationship between The Weeknd and Selena Gomez was a classic example of a high-profile celebrity romance that burned brightly and briefly, leaving behind a legacy primarily defined by the art it inspired. Their story is a powerful illustration of how two global stars can move past a complicated history to achieve even greater success on their own terms.
In late 2025, Selena Gomez is a newlywed, a successful producer, and a celebrated actress, while Abel Tesfaye is a film star, a long-term partner to Simi Khadra, and on the cusp of a major new album and movie release. Their paths have diverged completely, proving that the end of one chapter can lead to two immensely fulfilling new beginnings.
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