The Three Sons Of Richard Gere: A Deep Dive Into Homer, Alexander, And James Gere's Private Lives
As of late December 2025, Richard Gere, the iconic star of Pretty Woman and An Officer and a Gentleman, is a proud father to three sons, all of whom share his commitment to a private, spiritual, and family-focused life. At 76, Gere has embraced fatherhood across different decades, resulting in a fascinating blended family structure with his current wife, Spanish publicist and activist Alejandra Silva. The significant age gap between his eldest son, Homer, and his two youngest boys, Alexander and James, paints a unique picture of the actor's life, highlighting his journey from Hollywood heartthrob to devoted family man.
The lives of Richard Gere’s children are intentionally shielded from the relentless glare of the Hollywood spotlight, yet recent updates reveal a close-knit, international family unit. From his eldest son making rare red-carpet appearances to his two young boys growing up bilingual in Spain, this is the most current and in-depth look at the three sons who hold the center of the celebrated actor's world.
Richard Gere: Complete Biography and Family Profile
Richard Tiffany Gere has maintained a stellar career spanning over five decades, but his personal life, particularly his dedication to Tibetan Buddhism and his role as a father, often takes precedence over his filmography. He is a prominent humanitarian and a long-time advocate for the Dalai Lama.
- Full Name: Richard Tiffany Gere
- Date of Birth: August 31, 1949
- Age (as of December 2025): 76
- Place of Birth: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, U.S.
- Profession: Actor, Producer, Humanitarian
- Notable Films: American Gigolo (1980), An Officer and a Gentleman (1982), Pretty Woman (1990), Chicago (2002)
- First Marriage: Cindy Crawford (1991–1995)
- Second Marriage: Carey Lowell (2002–2016). They welcomed their son, Homer, before marrying.
- Third Marriage (Current): Alejandra Silva (Married 2018)
- Children: Homer James Jigme Gere (b. 2000), Alexander Gere (b. 2019), and James Gere (b. 2020)
- Current Wife’s Son (Step-son): Albert Friedland (from Alejandra Silva’s previous marriage)
The Eldest Son: Homer James Jigme Gere (Age 25)
Richard Gere’s first child, Homer James Jigme Gere, was born on February 6, 2000, during his relationship with actress and former model Carey Lowell. Homer's arrival marked a significant shift in Gere’s life, who was 50 years old at the time. The name "Jigme" is Tibetan, reflecting his father’s deep spiritual connection to Tibetan Buddhism and his friendship with the Dalai Lama.
A Life Away from the Limelight
Homer’s upbringing was deliberately kept private, away from the intense scrutiny that defined his father's career. He spent his formative years in the family's sprawling estate in Pound Ridge, New York. Unlike many celebrity children, Homer has largely avoided social media and public life, focusing instead on his own path.
Despite his private nature, Homer has been seen accompanying his father on rare public occasions in recent years. In November 2024, he attended the New York premiere of his father's Paramount+ show, The Agency, and also appeared at the City Harvest Presents The 2025 Gala. These appearances, often alongside his father and stepmother Alejandra Silva, have sparked speculation about whether he might eventually follow a path into the arts or public advocacy, though his current professional pursuits remain largely undisclosed. At 25 years old, Homer represents the first chapter of Richard Gere's journey into fatherhood, a role he has always cherished.
The Youngest Sons: Alexander and James Gere (Ages 6 and 5)
The second chapter of Richard Gere’s fatherhood began later in life, following his marriage to Alejandra Silva in 2018. Gere was nearly 70 when he welcomed his second son, Alexander, and 71 when his third son, James, was born. This late-in-life experience has been described by Gere and Silva as a joyous, though exhausting, blessing.
Alexander Gere (Born February 2019)
Alexander Gere was born in February 2019, just a year after his parents' private wedding ceremony. His birth was reportedly preceded by a special blessing from the Dalai Lama, a testament to the family's spiritual foundations. Alexander, now 6, has spent his early years living a quiet life with his parents and younger brother, primarily in Spain, where his mother is from. This international environment means the young boys are growing up bilingual, soaking up Spanish language and culture while maintaining a deep connection to their American roots.
James Gere (Born February 2020)
Born in February 2020, James Gere is Richard Gere’s youngest son, currently 5 years old. His birth rounded out the family, bringing the number of children in the household—including Alejandra Silva’s son, Albert—to four. While the name James is traditional, the family has been extremely protective of his privacy, even more so than Alexander.
The couple has shared rare, intimate glimpses of their life with their two young sons, often featuring the backs of their heads or silhouettes to protect their identities. These glimpses show a life filled with outdoor activities, laughter, and travel between their homes in Spain and the U.S. Alejandra Silva frequently posts heartfelt messages about her husband and their "mini-me" sons, emphasizing the family's focus on love, respect, and spiritual growth.
The Dynamic of Richard Gere's Blended Family
Richard Gere and Alejandra Silva have successfully navigated the complexities of a blended family, creating a harmonious environment for all their children. The family unit includes Homer (25), Alexander (6), James (5), and Alejandra’s son from a previous marriage, Albert (around 12-13 years old).
Generational Gaps and Shared Values
The 20-year age difference between Homer and his younger half-siblings presents a unique family dynamic. Homer is now an adult navigating his career and personal life, while Alexander and James are in their early elementary years. Despite the gap, the common threads of the family are strong: a deep respect for privacy, a commitment to humanitarian causes, and the guiding principles of Tibetan Buddhism.
Gere has spoken openly about the joy of being an older father, noting the different perspective and patience he brings to parenting now compared to when Homer was young. He and Silva have consciously chosen a lifestyle that prioritizes family time over career demands, often relocating to Spain to ensure their young sons are close to their mother's extended family. This decision underscores their commitment to providing a stable, loving, and grounded upbringing for all their boys. The sheer number of children and stepchildren—three sons for Richard and two sons for Alejandra—makes their household a busy, vibrant center of activity, a far cry from the solitary, brooding characters Gere often played on screen.
In a world where celebrity children are often overexposed, Richard Gere's three sons—Homer James Jigme, Alexander, and James Gere—are growing up with a rare gift: a life of intentional privacy and a foundation built on spiritual values and unconditional love. As the years progress, it remains to be seen if Alexander and James will eventually step into the public eye, but for now, they are the cherished, private joys of one of Hollywood’s most enduring stars.
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